Sex magic is a practice that uses the energy generated during sex or masturbation to manifest one’s needs and desires. It involves ritualistic energy exchanges, such as the O Method, which allows for the influence of the Universe in a desired direction. Understanding personal power and how to utilize the energy of the body is crucial for proper spellcasting.
Witches and wizards crave energy, and part of their training includes using candles, chanting, drumming, dancing, mediation, and knotting cords to raise and send physical, mental, and spiritual energy. In a coven, energy is typically raised as a group, with the cone of power created by holding hands and focusing on a single point, then chanting.
Sex magic is considered one of the most intuitive practices, as it involves ejaculating and having an explosive clitoral orgasm to increase energy rather than depleting it. The cone of power is visualized as a cone of energy that encompasses the circumference of the body.
Sex magic has ancient roots, dating back to the earliest days of sexual practices and sex. It is a solo sex magic practice, where the energy of orgasm is harnessed through masturbation or partner sex. This practice can be done through fasting, repeting an incanation, mantra, enn, or charm.
In conclusion, sex magic is a powerful practice that involves harnessing the energy of orgasm, utilizing it to manifest one’s needs and desires.
📹 Harnessing Sexual Energy | Sexual Transmutation | Sex Magic
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📹 How to Practice Sexual Alchemy / White Tantra / Karmamudra / Karezza Explained (Awaken Kundalini)
A guide to white tantric sacred sexuality based on the ancient universal principles of gnosis throughout all traditions. Discover how …
Glad I stumbled on this. Many women I know have had low libido since they were young. Me on the other hand, have always had a high drive. I haven’t had a menstrual cycle in about 5 years now and I thought my sexual urge would diminish since most women I know don’t have interest in sex. I can say that I have had to learn that going without sex for a certain amount of time does bring on a bad headache that may turn in to a migraine or I have overstimulated ovaries and that hurts tremendously. I want it more than I allow myself to get it but I have learned not to feel a way just because I enjoy the pleasure behind it. Glad I stumbled on this.
Nice article, would just like to say that youthful rambunctious energy can be cultivated/harnessed at any age, and not everyone’s energy just sharply declines by 30. Energy is ceaseless and regenerative, so there’s no “once it’s gone it’s gone.” It’s just a stream you can tap into or disconnect from. Sure, you can’t go back to being 18 again, but you can learn to website your energy more productively and it’s possible to feel better, more vivacious, and more alive at 45 than you did as a kid. Just food for thought 🙂
I don’t want this thing to own me any more. Recently, I’ve been chanting some mantras that raised my vibration and I was able to objectively see how base and unenlightened the energies were that tied me to lust. I went online to perhaps find some root chakra or kundalini exercises liberate me from these chains, and I found this article. Thank you for the instruction. I will be sure to watch more of them. Subscribed.
Great article! FYI There is a system called liuhebafa (6 combinations and eight methods). It lists a set of 6 combinations (liu he): The ti combines with the xin, the xin combines with the yi, the yi combines with the qi, the qi combines with the shen, the shen combines with the dong, the dong combines with the kong. In English, the body combines with the mind/heart, the mind/heart combines with the will, the will combines with the breath (qi), the breath combines with the spirit (shen), the spirit combines with the movement, the movement combines with emptiness. It is also a system based on Daoism.
I did no fap for like 5 yrs. It wasn’t good I ended up having my first wet dream at 40! Then I found it almost like starting over when I did finally have sex again. Almost as if I had never had sex before. Perhaps what they say if you dont use it you loose it is real. It may also affect people differently. I don’t like to deny myself anymore. I find I become far too stressed and aggressive or easily angered.
We have to consider our possibilities and the fact that we all had found our Body after preparing our coming to earth. How did this happen ? We SAW our future parents often before they had any contact with each other. And by sending them especially kept rays of love they fall into Love and we are getting our body. And this is a knowledge we can use by praying for a new soul to come, a Soul with supernational capacities as healing hands. You learn to know that there is Mahashakti when you study the works of Sri Aurobindo and the Mother. Our Mahashakti will grant you what you ask Her by your prayers for your future baby, specially when you are pregnant. This practice, done three times a day – although very simple and effective – is rarely performed. Because no becoming mother has heard about it.
Beautiful article!! I have been hiding my sexuality for some time. Thanks for this article… sexual energy is the energy of God… creative. I love Mantak Chia as well. However can I show a mirror to you for a moment… the mirror shows the biases of Western society appropriating everything and perhaps transmute it to western society integrating everything so that we become more as one. Western society is simply coming from a different place than you might see. Taoism is all about nonjudgment and it’s important to understand that also extends to western culture.
@Thelittleclipstore 1 second ago I always had difficulty seeing the difference in genders and sex drive. I felt like my drive works same as males. I felt super drained after orgasm. Then I realized it was much worse when I did it out of negative intentions (fight flight mode) and being too fast. and as soon I shared this with men they noticed same thing. If they climax when only positive energy and slow down and breathe more. they get much less drained. So what is really the difference. ? Don’t see clearly the connection to only orgasm or sperm releasing. I feel like it’s more the intentions and cycling it first through body. And if it’s released that way then ur not drained.. but what I did notice is that because it needs to come with right intentions and enough slow that I end up mastb much less. Cuz u want either the full deal or nothing. Fully positive experience or nothing.
Lovely article. Jing, Chi and Shen lovely however you missed Wei, no? If Chi comes purely from Jing then why is Chi or Prana connected to breath and how do Chi masters or martial artists draw in more Chi or Prana through the breath? Also the thing about non masturbation… hmm…. Non “climaxing” yes. Porn has nothing to do with intimate energy and growing it this is key here. Still a lovely article!
I don’t think kundalini is something you can lose, more so, it is a powerful way to manifest and shift realities if used appropriately. The need for orgasm is just the need for release. You can pull the energy through your bodies and hold it there to manifest and shift, but by no means does this infer the need to deny climax indefinitely. It needs to be used clearly and concisely for connection. It is a bonding activity, one that requires pause. While I agree with this in theory, individuals hoping to raise their vibration also need to be honest with themselves about shame and purity culture that may be the real reason for avoiding even self intimacy. Shame and fear block the sacral chakra, which has to be open for that energy to reach the crown. Peace.
To anyone who is reading the comments before the article, my advice is to come in humble to take to heart the wisdom that’s been so eloquently spoken before us. If you’re suffering from the pain of past relationships like I have then this will speak treasure troves of enlightenment into your heart. If not, don’t lose hope, and do a little more spiritual digging in other areas, then return here. Peace be with you friends.
Very awesome perspectives, and, not everyone is vanilla. ❤😂 If anyone feels they truly are right about everything- several “shoulds” and this is the “answer” undertone in this article- by default they’re not. We all offer different and valid perspectives / facets of the same diamond. 🙏🏼 There exists a reality where Tantric devotional, sacred intimacy AND fiery, fun and kinky intimacy can coexist. 🌬️🌊❤
Absolutely incredible. Having read and studied this topic (sex / sexuality) from many many perspectives during a proces of life not a single book or article has batted as many home runs as you did trough this one. Absolutely stunning work and thank you. As a man during these times I have found anxiety and stress over womens wanting to be choked and beaten up and all that stuff as I have not felt that that stuff comes naturally out of me in the moment. I have always longed for more sensual but felt that ” I need to learn ” to do all that rougher stuff and invent always new ways to ”spice things up” etc etc. So where I am coming with this is that this information also sort of relieved a lot of insecurity and anxiety towards sex that I just now find I had built lately as being single for a while. Maybe now a manifestation of a partner might increase its propability as I feel much more relaxed towards new adventures in the field of romance and eros. One more time thank you sir and blessings <3
BY FAR one of the most profound messages I have ever heard on sexuality. This is indeed a article to be played repeatedly and studied. So much DIVINE information and resources, I cannot thank you enough! I needed this desperately, I just hope I can apply it after a lifetime of conditioning. Never really celebrated Christmas, but this has indeed been an invaluable gift!
What we seek, is the one seeking. We are both the dream and the dreamer. So, be aware of your thoughts, dont let the media frighten you. For what you think, what you dream and what you say, WILL BECOME your reality. Your words are your wand, what you put out, you get back. So, be MINDFUL dearest soul family. This is a greate time, to be alive. In love and light we are all ONE. Best regards from Norway❤❤❤
Your ability to thoroughly convey such a deep message is as impressive and inspiring as always. After perusal your initial sexual transmutation article back in December, I attempted it on my own for some time, however I (predictably) eventually stopped. This article expanded upon the topic perfectly, and the importance of undergoing this process as a couple is now clear. I had the conversation with my “less spiritually-inclined” partner, and we are both prepared to undertake the challenge. I am truly excited to find what this will bring. Side note: Deciding to show your face on these articles and in the Discord was a wonderful idea. Being able to read your facial expressions and hand gestures greatly improves the level of communication!
I used to be addicted to sex as a way to cope, and an analogy I would always use after I stopped was that it was like trying to fill a hole in my heart with sand, I haven’t hooked up with anyone in about 7 months now and I was just thinking and really contemplating on going back to it, the reason I stopped was because I wanted to wait for my soulmate and stop self destructive tendencies but I really miss the feeling of being intimate with another person, this article came at the perfect time for me so thank you
This was the most beautiful article I have seen in my life. I’ve gotten so much love for myself in the most profound way possible. Because of how society makes orgasms sound, I used to think something was wrong with me because I never orgasmed vaginally. I now understand that that’s why I still had such a burning love for my partner after sex. But they became disinterested. I’m a Scorpio, and I’ve been unknowingly tapping into a tantric state for nearly all my life. I felt Eden and God when I was perusal this article. I can pretty much say I will never have sex with anyone at all. It isn’t sacred when done in the way society promotes sex. I feel so healed by perusal this article. The energetic boundaries I’m working on have helped me harness my light, and now with this new information, I’m going to ascend even higher. Thank you, the universe, for the gift of the creator of this article. May we all value his existence and carry these facts into society and heal by example. With so much love namaste
Thank you for this article. I lost my virginity at a very young age and went through rape and abuse leaving me not to feel worthy or good enough for much of my life. Thankfully I have started learning to love myself and forgive myself, making much progress over the last 10yrs. God has put the love of my life in my path. And I’m so thankful to be in a better headspace l, ready for this beautiful love I had only dreamed of before. I value and will take with me all you have said here. Thank you!
Your message in this article has the potential to completely heal the collective soul of humanity and the fall itself, if people would truly let it into their heart. Many thanks my friend. It is hard to maintain faith in the universe when you reach your 30s and still haven’t found a conscious partner, but this article has helped me a lot.
I’ve been trying to find information about maithuna for months so 1st of all: thank you! And 2nd: you are AMAZING! All the series about the chakras, Kundalini awakening and now this. I know you don’t like to be called “master” but honestly, we need people like you teaching 🙏🏻❤️ Thank you again and God bless you!!
Wow, clicked on this article out of pure curiosity and it turned out to be an educational investment, lol, that was so beautifully explained; being from an Indian culture, we kind of already have this awareness from a young age anyhow, although, I do think the younger generation, would almost certainly benefit from perusal this, as times have changed, right. Having been a spiritual aspirant from a young age and been single most of my life, it’s nice to know there are people out there, who share the same thought process. Namaste, love & light!
Thank you for putting into words everything that I had been asking God to teach me. The moment comes when one is ready and I am very grateful for having come to your website, so precise, clear and raw when it comes to explaining basic concepts that have been lost for centuries. I had a piece that was missing, I knew it came from inside me, and thanks to your website I was able to discover that it is time to honor Divinity. eternal gratitude 🐞
This man is beautiful. I can’t believe what i felt to be true is blatantly being told to me was the absolute truth. This beautiful man has enlightened me and expanded my knowledge on what i thought i already knew. especially the information of the tree of life, beautiful stuff. thank you and please keep making more of these articles
Actually i and my husband, we both decided to have a baby…and tantra had been changing our life because we both share our love to our baby girl…and he says that we create a closer and deep connection thru the astral with our little one..at the time that we practice tantra…we just don’t focus on the love that we have as partners…we focus on the love that we have for our baby daughter that it’s still on my womb, at the same time we give and thanks to the creator for bring us together as partners, we thank nature, we thank life and mother earth..and even we thank and we love ourselves. At the same time…❤😊🙏🏻 I can tell i used to be afraid to love, i used to have a lot of sexual energetic blockages by an previous abuse, i healed my heart, i purified my spirit, and my connection with the spirit has been awaken divine abilities…but if you don’t have a partner even you can do tantra loving yourself and that’s the key…
I have a lot of trauma in this category. I have worked very hard at healing over these years through celibacy and deep meditations. I discovered the true power of my kundalini energy in a fight for my life and my purity. It truly scared me at the power i held in my body. So much so that i became celibate until i could find the cause and reason for the supernatural occurences brewed up from the traumatic incidents. I truly cant thank you enough for the way you approached this subject. It gives ‘safe space’ vibes and i really appreciate you creating this content. Thank you so graciously. 🙏 ❤️🩹✨
“Just by being in close contact with your partner” This is the relationship I am experiencing with a woman I’ve only known for 6 weeks.. We can talk, embrace and kiss for hours… I can’t explain the pull toward each other. She had a near-death experience which awakened her kundalini. I think our relationship is having an effect on my own kundalini..
I experienced kundalini earlier this year out of nowhere and when I connected mentally with what I believe to be a twin soul then randomly once or twice I was able to achieve this powerful kundalini when thinking of this soul in self pleasure but now it seems that I can replicate it at will 🙀 with the intention that i am sharing this experience with a twin soul energy, self pleasure as the vehicle and self control as the destination! Very powerful so far 🙏
After just perusal this Gene I’m stunned because the truth of what you described is in a way hard for me to conceive (no pun intended) My concept of sexuality in the matter of a few minutes has completely changed. I’ve noticed the drain after many orgasms but also notice the rebuilding of strength after a pause of a few days or more. I am going to discuss this with my wife. Thank you as usual for the deep insight you have brought into my life. Here’s just another layer you are peeling back 🙏
What an amazing article. I am still very early in my journey, so I’m trying to unlearn a lot of things I was taught growing up. I don’t have a partner at the moment as I want to sort myself out first. Is this something I can do on my own, or do I need a partner? I haven’t had a partner for 2+ years. I find a lot of people are only interested in quick, fast and meaningless sex, whereas I have always been more about the experience of just being with someone. Like I love long and meaningful conversations and learning about the person before going any further. Any help would be appreciated. P.s – the comment section says a lot about your content and website; lot of love, understanding and connection ❤
It is hard to get over how the universe works. You have to be ready to hear this information for it to resonate. For those who have ears let them hear… that phrase changes meaning. Thank you so much Gene for having your website. It has truly been a blessing and I discovered it yesterday. It has connected alot of dots on my journey for truth
I love that someone other than myself spoke on this! People think having sex is a guilty pleasure or and but it is everything but! In ancient times they made love under the stars or out in the open they understood sex was a form of light work and reaching Godly levels!!! Sex was a way to reach GOD aka our highest self! I love this so much so much mental stimulation
ohhh myy avacados,this article is such a ride i have always had this innate feeling that sex is not just something mundane not some simple activity to just feel pleasure i had always had this feeling that it is divine, something related to divine (i am not able to describe but i have these pictures of galaxies and stars in my head and this feeling that never goes away ) i know that sex is something magical, celestial and im so glad i found this im so glad i have found this website
Thank you so much for this. I’ve heard about it but never made a search to understand and I actually saved this article a few months ago. In March of current year i decided to be celibate for at least 6months to better connect to myself and to someone that might appear along the way and now this article. I feel like i’m being guided. Thank you to God, thank you to my guiders, angels, thank you to my higher self and thank you for making such insightful articles ✨🤲
It’s absolutely amazing and astonishing and it fills me with awe that just listening to the first few MINUTES of this raises my energy IMMENSLY. Just talking about it, just hearing about it and thinking about it is healing. And I experienced this with myself and with the human I love, and… IT changed me forever. I can never see life with out magic again. I’m forever grateful. And this article came to me exactly at the right time to remind me that I HAVE to teach this as well. Even if it scares the holy out of me and a Part of me says I shouldn’t be this vain… This teaching is more important than my limiting beliefs. And the Universe will show me the when and how Thank you
You have got to understand how much this article means to me. This is ALWAYS what I have intuitively wanted. ALWAYS! – I was raped multiple times & molested as a child changing my body chemistry & attracting sexually abusive partners. – interestingly enough this is THE thing I’m on this planet to teach as well. I say one day let’s meet & teach together!
In my opinion, on this subject of sensuality and karma, Staju Jacob’s book ‘Karmasutra’ is a remarkable read on how karma influences sensuality. It is a rare find to see these two aspects of life combined and presented without religious biases. Also, non-Eastern readers, particularly those who are not familiar with karma, may find the laws of karma too complicated. However, this 2016 book ‘Karmasutra’ By Staju Jacob provides a clear and comprehensive understanding of the karmic world, including consensual sex and sexuality, curses, occult, and the system of karma, all without the use of vague and confusing Eastern religious terminology. Overall, it is a fantastic read and a path-breaking book on a rarely focussed area. Hope this book becomes widely available. By the way, this author is also an Indian-born author.. a guru of some sort I am sure..
I’m so proud of myself I did it ! I was able to hold back and it was still wonderful, My intention is to raise my kundalini energy and I’ve found with making love often it depletes spiritual energy cause I’ve noticed it . And everything you have said in this article makes perfect sense plus I love to keep that love connection going and after orgasm sometimes it dampens a bit . Im very grateful to you gene thank you for sharing this cause I intuitively felt this way too and my one intention is to heal and achieve conscious immortality as eckhart tolle puts it . I want to know how much love I really am and share it with others.
Will you make a article on how to recognize potential partner who is on the same spiritual path? I would love to hear your opinion on that topic or maybe even some personal experience in recognizing that someone wants to grow with you (and use sexual energy in the way you described).. Thank you either way!😊
Such a great article, the part about immaculate conception has my mind buzzing. The thought of bringing a beautiful child into the world who is already naturally of higher consciousness feels like such a joyous aspiration. Imagine how much good can be brought to the world by these practices? Beautiful. Thank you
So even without a partner I am experimenting with this technique and it is insanely powerful, I was a disbeliever but this is really working for me and I am amazed. Probably easier to learn without a partner, I’ve been connecting with a spiritual energy that’s tied to me but this is a great technique to try because the energetic payoff is amazing 🤩👏 thank you for sharing this information
I can’t thank you enough for this information. It is mind blowing. I am 52 years old and my entire life I have only had sexual experiences where we would rush through to the goal of orgasm. How very liberating it is to let go of that outcome and just enjoy the connection. Thank you for opening up a whole new world for me. Blessings 🙏
I hit puberty about 19 years ago and roughly did the math unveiling that I’ve probably “self loved” anywhere from 7,000 to 20,000 times. I developed a serious addiction and because of the secretive/hidden aspect, my sexual desire has its own separated personality and impulses pushing me into auto pilot mode until the regret of orgasm kicks in. I feel the mental switch as soon as I feel lust and all of this practice with retainment is helping me reunite my selves. Thank you for digitally guiding me through these times. It is very reassuring and helpful.
I regret nothing more than not learning about this earlier in my life. Pornography ruined my life. I am 35 and bitter. Single with no dreams or ambitions and I can’t help but wonder where I might have been in life if I had known about this earlier. Been trying my best to quit this demon that is destroying our generation. Weak men is exactly what todays society wants.
I listened to this about a year ago and am here to re listen. I am understanding more clearly this time around and am still amazed with your ability to explain things so crisp & clear. This has 1M views congratulations🎊 Humanity is shifting to a more conscious present mindset. You may enjoy reviewing the book Walter russel “Universal One” if you haven’t already 🙌☯️☀️
Thank you for the article. Having learned about managing sexual energy from Mantak Chia in 1986 and decades of experience I have a few comments to share. Orgasm and ejaculation are very different. Ejaculation is more physical (3rd Dimemsion) and Orgasm is energetic (5th Dimension). And yes White Tantra is intended to go much further toward 12th Dimension Monad. For Osho – Samadhi, Death, Bliss and spiritual Orgasm were synonymous. In Samadhi meditation practice the Ida and Pingala Nadis represent divine Masculine and divine Feminine energy that merge within the crown chakra of cosmos consciousness. Your article suggest only male and female physical forms (Lingam and yoni) can unite. These energies are both present within each person therefore same sex couples (or any LGBTQAI+) can share this divine ecstasy. It’s available to everyone and any sexual partner of choice. I noticed your use of the word “should” over ten times in your article. It’s usage landed hard at times. Was that intended? Much peace and grace to your important message of divine love.
I’ao is my favorite place on Maui. It means cloud supreme in Hawaiian. But ao means light or to grow or regain consciousness. It’s pronounced the same way as well. I find that fascinating. I also have experienced this kundalini because my friend was having a stressful moment and we were at work and I could see that he needed to be seen and he needed the tender touch that a mother can give so I hugged him even though my instinct told me I shouldn’t because he is not my husband or my family but I loved him and I did it because I understood his suffering. When I hugged him, I heard his secret thoughts towards me. Three layers deep. I like the way she looks, I like who she is in her soul and I trust her. When he thought to himself that he trust me, I dove in emotionally. I held him and rocked him back and forth in my arms because I saw that this is the way the needed to feel love so he could comprehend it to the root. But his response was complete comprehension and I never experienced someone who could see and understand what I was doing so fully and I also felt completely seen as I am as well. All of a sudden I saw the colors orange and yellow and it felt like lava exploded in my womb and felt this power surge through me and I went into another place. It looked like space and silence and bright stars. It was like home and it felt like it was the origin of my existence. It was like I had been asleep all this time and all of a sudden I was more awake.
I was seriously considering getting a vasectomy, since I have 3 children and I most definitely do not want a 4th child. This article came in perfect timing! I’ve been talking to my partner about sexual alchemy, and now I’m reconsidering this idea of having a vasectomy. Thank you for shedding light on this topic in such a beautiful way, really can’t wait to try this!
As I’m writing this the wind was whistling really loud. I truly love how you get straight to the point being born a sagittarius I appreciate that very much. I didn’t feel any lust whatsoever as you explained this deep profound understanding. This brought up my last experience he is a spiritual teacher. You described almost everything I experienced with him. I deeply needed this teaching to heal as I continue my journey. You deserve all the happiness love and support from THE ALL doing this hard work, as I do the work as well Words can’t express my gratitude for this article which instantly resonates deeply, this article took me to another level helping me to remember who I AM. I deeply thank you astral doorway.
I appreciate you. It’s rare to hear my experience described well. Without intellectually knowing why, I understood I no longer wanted more than one sex partner. Over the last year of practice, I’ve gained a technical understanding about why I lost interest in casual sex with many partners. I’ve never experienced such a deep and unconditional love before. My witchcraft has changed, my gnosis has changed and sacred sex is my new religion in a way it wasn’t before. I always practiced a form of sex Magic but now it’s way beyond anything I understood prior to my kundalini awakening.
Released and watched the day before my first Tantra retreat. Perfect 🥰 During a recent ritual, I connected enormously to this bull-like energy, both in myself and the women around. I was able to ride the immense waves of power and pleasure skilfully, but it gave me all the more motivation to master sexual alchemy. I find myself wobbling on the rajasic/sattvic edge and both energies just keep glowing brighter. So, thank you ever so much for sharing 🔯🎶🙏 Oddly, I’d never connected Mithraism and bullfighting, so thank you for connecting those dots, like so many baubles on the Christ-mas tree 🕊🐉🕊
I like the core of this theory. I thank you for such a well put together and concise article. My issue as with most religious and or spiritual teachings when it comes to sexuality is that it does not account for others outside a heteronormative relationship. I understand that the research my not be there. And perhaps there should be more done on the topic.With our population increasingly reporting being part of the LGBTQ+ community I think spiritual teachings would benefit from looking into this.
Thank you for this much needed article, explained with such clarity. You are such a wise teacher of Kundalini energy. I experienced it in higher dimensions just recently…. totally “out of this world”. I regularly practice same for the purpose of self-healing and healing for those in 3D and 4D, with the conscious assistance of God “I Am”, the Archangels and my Spirit Guides.
I want to thank you Sir for sharing this information/knowledge/wisdom with us all. It’s more confirmation for me, that this is what I have went through/experienced a number of years ago. I was becoming who I’m supposed to be and the reason I’m here 🙌 Thank you so much, Infinite love 💟 light 🌞 balance ⚖️ and peace 🕊️ for the greater good 😇💕😌
I have to say that this article and your explanations, examples etc was not only dead o. Point, but was also one of the BEST i have had the benefit of hearing. I have been interested in this for years but never found a legitimate source so to speak, and there were those that said they were practicing this but it was really just sex to them unfortunately. I remeber many times i have either denied or turned down sex w others and most are confused cant understand but i do.i was celibate then sexually active to back to celibacy. But i digress thank you for being honest with the topic. I will be learning more and look forward to practicing one day. Much Gratitude Love and Light to you.🙌🙏
I wanted to ask for clarification on the suggested frequency of tantric practice for individuals without partners. Should individuals simply continually practice retention/transmutation through pranayama, meditation, and awareness or elimination of desires? Or are you suggesting some addition to that practice beyond the periods of 1-2 months that you say is too long for a couple to refrain from unioned sexual transmutation? I find myself wishing I had seized the opportunity to practice this tantric alchemy with previous partners, but I was still in darkness. And now I find myself lusting for a proper union to engage in full karmamudra when I know this lust will only stunt me on that ascending path. How should (if so) individuals balance themselves beyond full abstinence along with transmutation in the absence or patient awaiting of a proper partner? Thank you for sharing your experience and understanding as always, Gene. In Lak’ech Ala K’in
This was practiced for thousands of years in India. The tasks for us is to transform the sex-teaching to our children. The difficulty is the old concept practiced by the church. The Bible does not contain the teaching of tantra. So, it will take hundreds of years to build up the holiness of tantra in a way like reading and writing.
Thank you for sharing this article and putting into words a practice I have been subconsciously doing. I brought this topic up with my partner and he was not open to practicing. I have had difficulty Orgsming in the past and have found union more satisfying without doing so. We had a long conversation on the subject of this practice prior to attempting to watch this article together (we got to half way). He decided it is not for him and feels the complete opposite, that orgsming is needed for him to feel deeper connected. However as I do not orgsm except for on occasion, I will consciously put this into practice. I feel this is the path for me, and I cannot force change on anyone except for myself. I would like to practice this with my partner and would rather not do it alone. I am unsure of how to go about this practice without my partner involved as well. There was much underlying ego I had seen during our conversation that I would like to detach from. I would like for both of us to grow more in love this way, but am unsure what kind of imbalance this will bring with one practicing and one not.
I believe so much in the conscious coupling you describe. But I find as a woman a very opposite post coital experience. I have loved a man who was into edging and not orgasming but the negative after effects you mention even for women, just did not apply. Could this be a male dominated teaching that is missing a strong feminine perspective like much of history or am I just weird. I feel energized and more connected and in love with my partner and the feeling lasts. I do relate to wanting it more frequently and agree we should practice over coming passions but something about this just isn’t resonating with my experience. Help it make sense please 🙏🏼
This completely explains why when I did a 40 day dopamine detox last year all my upper chakra centers lit up and I got spiritual visions and revelations and a low-level of clairvoyance until I ended the fast and had sex, again (and that sent me straightaway into a hellish experience where I was forced to work out unresolved traumas, fears, and resentments for 6 months). Ever since that happened, I’ve been able to move kundalini energy around in my body very easily just by closing my eyes and breathing in and out – I don’t even need the full technique given in this article for moving the energy up the spine: I just intend it and breathe in, and it just moves. Sometimes I can cycle it up and then down all the way through to the feet on the out-breath, as well, and just keep that energy cycling for several breathes in rhythm.
Hi Gene, thank you for an enlightening article again. I have a few questions on this matter, as I come from a different perspective, a trans man, born with female external genitalia and now I have male external genitalia. I have many people in same sex relationships in my life. There are many humans who lie in between this spectrum of biological male and female, although I feel sex is always an interplay between the push and pull of masculine and feminine energies. Where do we all fit into this story of tantra through your lens of knowledge? And why wasn’t the inbetween touched upon? It feels the way you framed it, white tantra practice is only true to cisgendered heterosexual beings, but there is much sexual interplay and Truth between that binary. Thank you for helping me understand your perspective, I appreciate your insights and sharings 🙏🏼 with peace, Tal
Excellent! Stumbled upon this by accident but had to listen all the way through, as I have been trying to alleviate sexual desire and thoughts for many years and recently have been trying to tap into my kundalini energy. I actually have been trying to experience this energy without orgasm and practiced real love with my wife not too long ago, it’s extremely empowering and wonderful to feel this without expelling the energy that builds up!
Absolutely amazing and inspirational segment! I look forward to more✨ I find it mind blowing how much nowadays we need to counter defend ourselves after we speak an opinion haha.. but anyways💜 Divine love alchemy is a path I strive to practice and you helped clarify that even more with the thorough lesson of white tantra🙏🏻. My lifestyle is white tantra it sounds like
You put my thoughts into words so detailed and correctly. I’ve tried, myself, to describe my level of Love, Intimacy and Spiritual Hunger. Maybe Next Lifetime I always say. Not trying to get too personal but I’ve been abstinent for 7+ years and when I do have “my time” to myself (climax) I’m crying. The heights I reach in Love are untouchable. I wish to share such beautiful secrets of the alchemical marriage but…… people do not recognize me.
Interesting your analogy of making love, likening it to a balloon…. You are very good at this Kundalini subject. You have had a lot of introspection work done. I could’ve downloaded the information from the ether, but I am currently working on something else. Thanks for the information, you have saved me about 3-6 months of work. There is a law in nature, natural law, that states that to create something new, there must be two forces, the male and female, or positive and negative energies to truly create something new, or else there is nothing truly created. I use this very principle in business. I understand that other advanced humanoids in other galaxies and unverses, and ours too, don’t have sex the way we do. But mingle their energies without touching one another. Non violence and loss prevention is the highest form of religion, practiced through the natural laws of morality. And the Void of all forms of attachment, can one realize the highest spirituality, and truly release Karma, from sticking to your soul. and that includes sex. I get my energies from the sun itself (the inhalations of those energies, the morning sun)…and not through sex transmutation.
I’m at 25 min in and already i don’t see how this would relate to women who since we are multi organismic- it seems to be like another way to limit women’s pleasure to keep us on the same level as men since they don’t have the same abilities- women are literal PORTALS to love and life and he says woman generally dont feel connected to their partner after sex?? That is the exact opposite of how our hormone works- it is well documented that we bond after orgasm! He is intentionally lying about how women bond and the actual science of oxytocin
I’m from the elder millennial generation, and fortunately, when I was in my 20’s I never encountered men wanting to choke and do all that crazy stuff people are doing nowadays. I feel relief about that, but, as we are going into higher states of consciousness thanks to the solar flares, all this knowledge is going to get to become mainstream, and when it does. All the choking and MSDM or whatever it’s called will disappear from our surroundings.
This is pretty good. However there is a key point in this that should be said; make sure that you yourself are mentally and emotionally stable before begining these practices. This is not just for getting your rocks off or just to keep a partner through having better sex. Please be smart about it. Watch who you lay down with.
Osho said while maiking love, both should have slow breathing.. like ur in relaxed state… Even if u do it properly very few get to that state.. with slow breathing try for 3 hours.. if we get that connection, complete union.. u won’t have physical craving for all next life incarnation.. We will transcend.. 🙏
I would be so interested in a article discussing attachment styles and codependency in relation to the journey of sexual alchemy . I’ve recently grown aware of these things in my life and my own subconscious programming and looking to balance and elevate this information along with what i’ve discovered within. Let me know if you’re more curious or perhaps you already know where my ideas are heading! Thank you for raising consciousness i feel hopeful my brother ✨🤞🏽
Hello! I appreciate the information! I am in a loving lesbian relationship and was introduced to sexual alchemy and Tantra and only been given the “straight perspective” in the spirituality community especially about twin flames relationships. I am well aware divine feminine and divine masculine is energy and not based on gender. Can you please assist or have any advice to give? Thank you!
Oh no way. Was thinking so much about this in relation to my twin flame before I saw this, after reading your comment in the discord about alchemy for couples. Even though we’ve definetly reached some kind of soul union. As she dosen’t have any kind of of spirtual practice, all her energy is being gobbled up by the forces of the abyss, even though I’m being concious to website mine upwards as much as I can. The exception is when we’re physically together, which isn’t always possible. I conculded that I have to be concious enough for both of us at all times. I don’t think she’s quite ready for the blood sweat and tears of the spritual path just yet. Any way thanks for the article as always, will defenetly contain the next big clue for me. I trust the divine plan more than ever now. Feel like pappa and mama got us all on a tight curriculum right now. Sending my love as always Gene.
My heart just exploded of warmth by listening to the article… I always had this longing and need for this kind of presence and gentle tenderness in sexual and emotional interaction, now I know what I understood intuitively is true and real…. In few occasion i had a spontaneous “enlightenment ” but happened after my partner got the orgasm and me without reaching it felt a weird yet most fulfilling experience of warmth “brain fireworks” after just laying connected .( hard to put in words but felt like magic ☺️) Thank you for the informations and sharing with us . 🙏
Thank you for bringing this topic to light, it is extremely important, especially in the current state of our world. I personally can attest to the fact that sexual energy is indeed – Sacred. I am a woman who has been practicing Tantric sacred sexuality for quite a few years, however in 2015 I did not vet my partner properly, and became seriously ill for quite some time! His energy was very toxic and shocked my energetic system. I’m still recovering and have abstained from any relationships since. I am choosing to be celibate at this point. I’m definitely more aware and willing to wait for the “right” person to bond and share such sacred energy with. * Please be careful with your sexual energy, especially women. We indeed are the receivers – vessels, we should always receive light and purity. This website is what the world needs right now, much love to you for bringing sacred awareness to light ⚡❤🙏
I’m connected to my plants and keeping my semen retention and connection to the spirits strong is essential, however I’ve fallen like every man. When I release my plants die, it never fails. I’ve been documenting this and having dreams from the spirits about this all that you tap into here. Ive just been waiting to come across what I really needed to see. So easy to ignore the voice of knowledge. But it’s is impossible to to silence the call of knowledge.
This was fantastic,beautiful, beautiful, sadly my husband transitioned over two years ago after being ill for some time. What a gift this would have been to our relationship. I surmised intuitively there was much more to this practice. Unfortunately my husband and I never explored this. Well now I have no partner. So what to do as a single mature female? Anyway it was great hearing this article.👍🏾☀️👍🏾💜. (Transitioned means he is no longer on this plane of existence)
Brilliant presentation. This age old principle of coital interaction has been hidden. Therefore, to come forth in this time to assist in the elevation of consciousness around sexual interactions is absolutely important. I first came upon your articles this morning and is indeed happy to see that someone has dedicated time to share. Best Wishes in your endeavours.
Thank you for this article! I found a lot of the information to be very insightful. It’s reinvigorated my desire to practice celibacy again. However there are a few things that I would like to address, specifically regarding contraceptives. Although unlikely, it is still possible to get pregnant during this process of what is described. And many women use contraceptives for various reasons including hormonal imbalance or financial reasons/ family planning. I think it’s important to say that you can still have beautiful spiritual experiences with this practice while using contraceptives. As a queer individual, I am also curious about how gender fluidity and non-hetero sexual orientation fits into all of this. I acknowledge the lack of info probably comes down to these ideas being conceived during a time where gender was only understood in binary terms. Thanks again for a great article!!
The women of the earth, in their majority, were in relationships that they thought based on love. But, now, with the awakening of Consciousness, they understand that there was never love. And they must be healed. Of non-love. Including their sexuality which was never discovered in the non-love marriage even. So, your teachings are very precious for a woman awakened at her full sexual potential, what isn’t the case for the majority.
Thanks Bruh, I have been trying to figure out the exact meaning of the sexual act, and how it relates to the spiritual journey. I would say ” how do I transfer this feeling to my spirit, because there has to be more.” You have help me to understand more than I thought possible. Thanks for sharing this. It’s a gift.🎉😊
Maybe the insecurities arises in a woman after sex.. because we perceive that you don’t care anymore.. I am a woman and I can say that you want to connect more after.. A lot more. You feel connected to your partner. The man does not and it feels not good.. I am just pointing out an important point. Thank you for this article! I appreciate perusal it!
Thanks alot for your shearing and insights on this.🙏💚 After hearing this there is a little warning I would like to make though. If you are new to this or still have ejaculations from time to time and decide not to protect against pregnancy with this practice, be aware of; ” Pre-cum doesn’t actually contain any sperm. But it’s possible for sperm to leak into pre-cum. Pre-cum is a lubricant produced by a gland in the penis. It’s released before ejaculation. Semen may linger in the urethra after previous ejaculation and mix with pre-cum while it’s on its way out. “
I don’t know that I experience everything you mentioned here as true, about having orgasms with your partner! I have found that sometimes an orgasm with my beloved one takes us to a wonderfully deep place and opens me up into surrendering into my polarity, and into the relationship. A deep and conscious orgasm leaves us glowing for a long time and doesn’t disconnect us at all. So I guess it just depends on how you use the orgasm and what the intention is, and whether or not you are being conscious. To put it into context though, we don’t chase orgasms and we both have our own spiritual practice and both have had long periods of abstinence. So yea, I think orgasms can be beneficial but like anything, shouldn’t be abused. I think it’s important to keep it in mind otherwise there is the risk of taking a dogmatic approach “anti-orgasm” approach that will breed its own fear, shame and darkness! When it comes down to it, orgasms are a wonderful gift and so is practicing non-orgasm or rather, the type of pleasurable lovemaking where the orgasm is extended and without ejaculation (so, no crotch-sneeze, as some put it lol!), is also wonderful. Balance in all things! I think one should approach white tantra from the place of divine inspiration and ease, rather than resistance and fear of the big naughty O. Deepen sex in all ways, love yourself in all ways, heal yourself, be one with the Divine. 🙂 Happy love making!
I’ve been so lustful. Over stimulated. I don’t know if I feel this and my partner right now is a guy so idk how the energy exchange differs Today I slept with my ex and I felt the demagnetizing wasn’t even into it all the way. You release quick. This side of experience feels daring self conscious and a downward trend without self knowledge Thanks for the enlightenment
Actually, the easiest way to explain this state of sexuality is: the sustained state of pre-orgasm; that moment when you start to feel the ecstatic state that leads towards orgasm but, instead of going all the way through, you learn to sustain it through self control. It is in that state that you take time to connect with your partner spiritually. Although, we as Christian have our own way to deal with this. The Spirit through Christ has a power to reset our inner energy.
Thank you for sharing this knowledge. “La petite mort” = the little death refers to ejaculation and not to orgasm. Those are 2 different things. That is what bothers me in your explanations. Thank you that you point out that sexual energy is powerful and positive. As with the NoFap ideology, we have to be very careful not to label sexual desir, ejaculation or orgasm as inherently bad, harmful, or shameful. I think it is the awareness and the meaning that we put in to this experiences that change the effects of those experiences. Did you read ” the multi-orgasmic man” by Mantak Chia? Some Tantra and Tao practices are explained in his book.
This is a very useful article, especially for people whose relationship with sexuality is based on compulsion. There’s just one thing I disagree with; passion/desire for physical pleasure are not sin. Yes, it might come from a place of disconnection, but sometimes they hold many secrets and snippets of personal truth. For those who are doing shadow work, exploring that can be useful. It has to be approached with awareness and presence though. Getting lost in it is easy.
Thank you. Thank You! I always knew something was very wrong and super unenjoyable but I didn’t know any better and neither did my parents and grandparents. My great grandparents and all those children and all the suffering could’ve been avoided maybe. I want to learn more about this subject. You are brave in my opinion for teaching this!
Thank you so much for taking time to share with us such divine wisdom…….you have brought light to many myself included. I read perfect matrimony 3 years back but I couldn’t understand it clearly as you have just explained in this article. I am grateful to have came across your articles,this morning as i was leaving my house i asked my guides to help me gain understanding, wisdom and i was guided to you. LOVE AND PEACE FOR ALL BEING💫💫💫💫💫🌱🌱🦋🌈🌑🌞☀☀
This explains the “edging” phenomena so-to-speak. I don’t know a lot about this yet so please excuse my ignorance. I know, intuitively, there is some power, in the most beautiful way, in this energy . I get it . The key is getting rid of all that shame around it so you can explore what it means to you personally .